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Dating As A Plus Size Person In 2024




Dating as a plus-size person can be difficult. It is easy to understand why: a fear of fat bodies from society, sometimes a lack of self confidence from women who are fat. There's a variety of factors that do make dating as a plus women (and even man / whatever gender you are) hard.

Just another blogging challenge - Something you don't know about me?

I like to think I'm a pretty open person.  As much as I hate to do it, near enough every aspect of my life is broadcast on social media. I mean we do live in a 'Big Brother' society, but I'd be pretty screwed if for some unannounced reason, the government had to find me. One look on my Instagram and they’d know I was in a nandos or the diner. SO when it came to writing this post, I was pretty screwed. I put my heart on sleeve, can’t keep my own secrets let alone others soooo there isn’t much, I haven’t at one point put on to the open world wide net.

I think the only thing I think people don’t know about me is that I’ve never fallen in love/been in a completely serious long term relationship. I’m not even sure I’ve had a relationship last longer than a year. I sometimes let it bother me, but at 22 I’ve had way too much fun to be bothered by it. I actually think my best friends have put me off, with their relationship problems etc. The idea of being with that same someone for longer than a year is terrifying. It might steam down from my parents’ divorce. I know the idea of marriage is more or less a complete right off because of it. I just haven’t found the one I suppose. I think being the pickiest person also doesn’t help this dilema. (

I’d love to find that one true love of course (anyone know of a chubby bearded man, who loves food, pop punk and me? hit me up); I just live by the idea of not settling. I can’t settle for second best, or being with someone for the sake of it. It just isn’t me, and if I’m not completely happy I won’t keep my mouth shut and put up with it, why should I?


I can’t see this being the most interesting ‘unknown fact’ in the world, but it’s personal to me and something I’m ready to share with the world. I suppose I literally have no unknown secrets to the world currently now.







Love
Michaela

xo




Just another blogging challenge LOVE IS IN THE AIR


This valentines is the first in a few years I actually have a date. I've already received the phone call off my mum.
 'If a letter arrives for you, it's probably best to leave opening it until Friday,' (thanks for the yearly Valentine 'without fail' card mum.)  As well as a date I am attending a wedding in the day. Normally I'm a grump when this time of year comes around. At 22 I've had several failed relationships that haven't even reached a celebratory anniversary (this is the part where you feel sorry for me yeah?) This year though there's lot's happening and like I mentioned I have a date (sick of hearing it already?) 

I wasn't sure what to write about when this theme come along. Do I wanna right about all the cooey and mention gross romantic stuff? or, do I just keep it to Valentine themed things? I chosen to sample a few bits I think would be perfect for not only Valentines day but to wear all the time (who want's to buy something just for a hallmark created day anyway? 'Love is all around me it's everywhere I go' )









All on asos.com now

Love
Michaela
xo